活动主题：

Does relationship advice from the experts work in real life? Let's listen to some and let's go deep!

So, how’s your love life? Dare we even go there? It’s such a tricky topic that a tendency may be to not want to touch it with a ten-foot pole! And yet, how DO you feel about your relationship(s): past, present, or maybe a desired future one? What are things you already learned and know to be things you must avoid or must absolutely do in a relationship? What have you heard (and maybe even applied) from the various relationship experts, and what resonated with you and worked for you?

Few of us ever have the guts (or arrogance) to claim to be relationship experts, and most of us probably distrust those who do! That’s understandable. And yet, a lot of wisdom and changed lives have been a result of the principles and guidance of therapists and researchers like Harville Hendrix, Helen Lakelly Hunt, and the Gottmans, among others - masters of the topic, who aren’t even self-proclaimed experts, but those beautiful rare cases who actually live what they preach. Let’s review (or see for the first time?) some of the gems they have to teach us about how relationships work and, more importantly, how they CAN work better, to give us that lasting connection we all want. Bring your brave vulnerability to this club, as well as that beautiful open mind, to see what you may want to do differently in the future on this very loaded topic. 

专家的关系建议在现实生活中有效吗？让我们听听一些建议，深入探讨！

那么，你的爱情生活怎么样？我们敢不敢去触碰这个话题？这是一个如此棘手的主题，以至于人们可能倾向于敬而远之！然而，你对自己的关系（过去、现在或可能未来的）有什么样的感受？你已经学到了什么，知道在一段关系中必须避免或必须绝对要做的事情？你从各种关系专家那里听到了什么（也许还应用了），什么与你有共鸣，对你有效？

很少有人敢自称是恋爱专家，大多数人可能也不信任那些自称是专家的人。这是可以理解的。然而，许多智慧和改变生活的结果来自于治疗师和研究人员的原则和指导，例如Harville Hendrix、Helen Lakelly Hunt和Gottmans等人，他们不是自封的专家，而是真正践行自己所宣扬的美丽而罕见的案例。让我们回顾（或首次了解）他们教给我们的一些关于人际关系如何运作，更重要的是，如何能更好地运作的宝贵知识，以给我们带来我们都想要的那种持久联系。带着勇敢的脆弱和美丽开放的心态参加这个俱乐部，看看你未来在这个充满挑战的话题上可能想做些什么。